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djinwa wrote:Yes, all sin is bad, but there are different degrees of sin. When we ignore the more serious sins, you have to wonder what is going on.

So very true. Varying degrees of punishment if you confess a sin to the bishop proves that. Some sins are minor, some huge.

Jesus talked about straining at a gnat and swallowing a camel. He also hated the hypocrites who would stone the adulteress.

Some of the stone throwers had probably been with her.

So lets just keep shaming the young teenager cursed with hormones for masturbation or any thoughts of sex, while we ignore those who blow up families for lusting after material things.

Divorce is considered a major sin in the Bible.

Feminism rules the church. Male urges bad, female urges good.

That is part of the US culture that slips in.

Fiannan wrote:

djinwa wrote:Yes, all sin is bad, but there are different degrees of sin. When we ignore the more serious sins, you have to wonder what is going on.

So very true. Varying degrees of punishment if you confess a sin to the bishop proves that. Some sins are minor, some huge.

Jesus talked about straining at a gnat and swallowing a camel. He also hated the hypocrites who would stone the adulteress.

Some of the stone throwers had probably been with her.

So lets just keep shaming the young teenager cursed with hormones for masturbation or any thoughts of sex, while we ignore those who blow up families for lusting after material things.

Divorce is considered a major sin in the Bible.

Feminism rules the church. Male urges bad, female urges good.

That is part of the US culture that slips in.

Different degrees of sin? Really? Tell us, which out of all conceivable small sins will still allow a person to enter into God's presence? Name just one.

Different degrees of sin? Really? Tell us, which out of all conceivable small sins will still allow a person to enter into God's presence? Name just one.

Well, the shedding of innocent blood or denial of the Holy Ghost certainly rank higher than lying and telling your wife that the pants she likes at the store make her look way slimmer than they really do. ;)

Fiannan wrote:

Different degrees of sin? Really? Tell us, which out of all conceivable small sins will still allow a person to enter into God's presence? Name just one.

Well, the shedding of innocent blood or denial of the Holy Ghost certainly rank higher than lying and telling your wife that the pants she likes at the store make her look way slimmer than they really do. ;)

You didn't quote one sin that can be allowed in the eyes of God. You chose to write a tiny synopsis so as to cover up the fact that there is not one sin in existence that God will allow in his presence. There are sins of commission and omission, just pick one.
There are no small or tiny sins, only repentance in order to keep the slate clean.

Mosiah 4:29,30
29 And finally, I cannot tell you all the things whereby ye may commit sin; for there are divers ways and means, even so many that I cannot number them.

30 But this much I can tell you, that if ye do not watch yourselves, and your thoughts, and your words, and your deeds, and observe the commandments of God, and continue in the faith of what ye have heard concerning the coming of our Lord, even unto the end of your lives, ye must perish. And now, O man, remember, and perish not.

HI I am struggling with masterbaion and I need help I spoken about it with god and I need to talk to my bishop I’m just scared that he is going to tell my parents

Ehrmdc wrote: ↑February 1st, 2020, 7:22 pm HI I am struggling with masterbaion and I need help I spoken about it with god and I need to talk to my bishop I’m just scared that he is going to tell my parents

He might tell them. A good bishop won't though, if you ask him to keep it confidential.... I believe. Do you trust him?

It's between you and God.


https://protectldschildren.org/

The Creator wrote: ↑February 1st, 2020, 9:28 pm It's between you and God.


https://protectldschildren.org/

That site keeps mentioning “interviews”. A confession isn’t an interview. They are different things.

When I was younger I decided I would like to tell my Bishop about some previous indiscretions in my life. I couldn’t understand why I had a stupor of thought and the Spirit seemed to be saying: don’t do it and don’t tell this man anything. I still went ahead and spoke to the Bishop,

A few months later I was home teaching and was visiting the brother in law of the Bishop.
While I was there he said to me, “listen, in future do not tell the Bishop anything. That same evening after you spoke to him he went home, told my sister and the kids everything you had told him and they all had a good laugh about it”

Ehrmdc wrote: ↑February 1st, 2020, 7:22 pm HI I am struggling with masterbaion and I need help I spoken about it with god and I need to talk to my bishop I’m just scared that he is going to tell my parents

That’s good you prayed about it. Keep praying. Don’t tell your bishop. If it interferes with your life (is an addiction), then confide in your parents if you can, so you can get help. If it’s not an addiction, don’t worry about it.

RobinHood gave good advice...

Robin Hood wrote: ↑November 8th, 2016, 4:02 pm Don't be too hard on yourself. You're probably doing a lot better than you think.
Try this.
Note the number of times you are tempted but don't do it. You might be tempted 20 times in a day and resist the first 19, but then give in. Now think about it. You scored 19 and the sin/devil/whatever, scored 1.
If this was a soccer game you would have won 19-1. That is an astounding victory.
The devil makes you think that the only goal that counts is the one he scored. He is a liar.
You trounched him 19-1.
The Lord sees and gives you credit for your 19 goals.
Give yourself some credit too my friend.

Here's the best advice I've ever heard.

"I told my son that masturbation should be treated like nose picking. It's your business alone. No one else wants to see it, hear it, or find evidence of it. Don't do it in public. Clean up afterwards. Don't do it excessively and cause injury. Don't bother anyone with it. For the benefit of polite society, we don't want to make it a public issue. Anyone inquiring about your private and safe business should be viewed with deep suspicion."

JustAMormonGuy wrote: ↑November 8th, 2016, 1:06 pm Hello, I am 13 years old and am struggling with masturbation.
I really want to repent and forsake my sins but I am worried that my bishop will tell my parents. I can handle telling my bishop and ive already confessed openly to God but I don't want my parents to know.


Thank you all For you're help.


-Mormon Kid-

no

Every boy and many most - girls struggle with this in teen years. Trust me, they know. You go to a bishop only if you think he can help you . Just make sure you don't watch porn. Then you are in a big hole. I speak as a branch president and a school teacher ..

JustAMormonGuy wrote: ↑November 8th, 2016, 1:06 pm Hello, I am 13 years old and am struggling with masturbation.
I really want to repent and forsake my sins but I am worried that my bishop will tell my parents. I can handle telling my bishop and ive already confessed openly to God but I don't want my parents to know.


Thank you all For you're help.


-Mormon Kid-

1. Why or who taught you that masturbation was a sin?

2. Why do you believe something that makes you feel good is an awful thing?

It shocks me to see the kind of brainwashing our church leaders have rendered on the youth.

JustAMormonGuy wrote: ↑November 8th, 2016, 1:06 pm Hello, I am 13 years old and am struggling with masturbation.
I really want to repent and forsake my sins but I am worried that my bishop will tell my parents. I can handle telling my bishop and ive already confessed openly to God but I don't want my parents to know.


Thank you all For you're help.


-Mormon Kid-

1. Why or who taught you that masturbation was a sin?

2. Why do you believe something that makes you feel good is an awful thing?

3. If we are supposed to be led by a spirit of peace and comfort then why does the idea of talking to your bishop or parents fill you with fear and apprehension? That doesn’t sound like the enabling power of Christ but instead the compulsion of Satan.

It shocks me to see the kind of brainwashing our church leaders have rendered on the youth. Do you, deep down, feel that what you are doing is “evil”? Or do you feel ashamed of what others think, and confused?

The sin next to murder is adultery, which means to have sexual relations with someone who is not your spouse. That’s because sex creates children and unless children are created and raised in love, the parents are Wrecking the child before he or she has a chance.

What you do with yourself on your own is not going to result in illegitimate children. What you are experiencing is a desire for love and a longing for connection. It is an indicator that you do not feel fulfilled, just like 99.99% of humanity. There is nothing wrong with you and frankly, it is not the business of anyone but yourself.

Let’s face it, if you didn’t want to do it, you wouldn’t. That’s not an accusation of hypocrisy, it’s a statement indicating that your subconscious knows what you really want, no matter how much your conscious mind is in denial or confused.

And to be honest, there is not a thing your bishop can do to help you with it, because what you think of as your “problem” is really your subconscious solution to the real problem, and only Father can help you figure out what the real problem is.

Anyway, to answer your original question, I think it is entirely dependent on whether or not the bishop feels like telling your parents. But the fact that you don’t want to tell your parents is an indicator that things are not alright at home, and that would be my first hint as to why you do not feel connection and love in your life like you should.