There are examples in the Book of Mormon. The Anti Nephi Lehies would not lift up a sword, this was due to the gravity of their sins before they joined the church.CelestialAngel wrote: ↑September 11th, 2017, 12:43 pm On this 16th anniversary of 9/11 a day of hate, let's not let Satan win by stirring up anger and hate in us. In my mind the only way to defeat evil and hate towards others is by showing love and compassion toward others, so try to show love and show love can defeat hate and God always wins and defeats Satan.
Then there is Captain Moroni, who didn't want to shed blood, but the dissident Nephites caused the Lamanites to battle anyway.
The adversary is in this to take as many people to hell as he can. Being nice will not work when the adversary is in it. That is why he and his followers were cast out of heaven.