This from the prophet Joseph:
"The other Comforter spoken of is a subject of great
interest, and perhaps understood by few of this generation.
After a person has faith in Christ, repents of his sins, and is
baptized for the remission of his sins and receives the Holy
Ghost, (by the laying on of hands),which is the first
Comforter, then let him continue to humble himself before
God, hungering and thirsting after righteousness, and living
by every word of God, and the Lord will soon say unto him,
Son, thou shalt be exalted. When the Lord has thoroughly
proved him, and finds that the man is determined to serve
Him at all hazards, then the man will find his calling and his
election made sure, then it will be his privilege to receive the
other Comforter, which the Lord hath promised the Saints,
as is recorded in the testimony of St. John, in the 14th
chapter, from the 12th to the 27th verses. . . ."
I think the caveat given of being fully proven by the Lord to serve him at all costs is so important to understand. We do not determine within our own time frame when the Lord should bestow upon us these great blessings. It is for the Lord to determine in his own time frame. The Lords course is one eternal round. It is not productive for us to try and measure out His timing for us. Many righteous and faithful Saints have passed thru the veil of mortality into immortality without seeing the face of the Lord in their mortal lives. Did the Lord value them less or feel they were not worthy because this blessing never occurred for them in mortality? I would be careful in making such judgement. Accepting the Lords will for us is key to living a faith filled life. All things will work for our good if we do so.