What we were hopefully trying to end with yesterday was this concept, the patriarchal order, as far as we are concerned, centers in and revolves around Celestial Marriage. When an individual progresses in the Church to the point that he has the blessings of that order of the priesthood, he has thereby entered into a patriarchal order in which he becomes an inheritor of all the blessings of Abraham and becomes a natural patriarch to his posterity. In consequence of which he can do anything where his posterity are concerned and Abraham can do where his are involved or Jacob can do where his are involved. So that he ought, among other things, to give the patriarchal blessings to his own descendants.
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Question: Did you say a father should be able to give his family patriarchal blessings? Would that be the same as the blessings received from the patriarch?
BRM: It’s precisely the same...
Question: (Inaudible) . . . made the point that while the father should give patriarchal
blessings to their children, they still should be taken to the patriarch to receive a blessing.
BRM: That’s all right. That’s all right in our system. Now, they don’t have to be taken to the patriarch, I do that. I give my children a patriarchal blessing and in addition let them go to a patriarch. All I can say for the patriarch is he better get in tune, because I gave it first. The fact is if these blessings come from the same source, they will be in harmony with each other.
Question: You record them then?
BRM: Sure, I record them. I record them just exactly like any other patriarchal blessing, I declare their lineage; I call them anything I feel like telling them. Really that is their patriarchal blessing and anything a patriarch tells them I am delighted to have them have as additional blessings; but give them. I am the natural patriarch for my children and this is what ought to be. Now, I have a patriarchal blessing which came from my father and I have another one that came from the patriarch to the Church, As it ought to be, my father told me what was involved and the patriarch to the Church just said a few little incidental things and that’s the way it happened, ...
Question: (Inaudible) . . . declared lineage for your children?
BRM: I declared lineage, President Joseph Fielding Smith says, it’s in writing in Doctrines of Salvation, if the father gets the inspiration, he can declare the lineage. Well, the only issue is, do you get the inspiration? And that in principal applies to anything in a patriarchal blessing. You shouldn’t say anything you don’t have the inspiration to say anyway, So if I get the inspiration to tell my children they are of the tribe of Ephraim, which I did, it’s true they are of the tribe of Ephraim and I declared their lineage, Now, should I say the patriarch better conform, that’s all, To what I said. ...
from Patriarchal Order - Eternal Family Concept (Lecture given by Bruce R. McConkie during the 1967 CES Conference on the campus of BYU.)
Now this is the patriarchal order. And anybody who becomes on the basis that is here stated, a natural patriarch to his posterity, has every right that Jacob has and he ought to give his children a patriarchal blessing. And he has every right that Abraham had and we’re beginning to teach in the Church that fathers ought to give their own children their patriarchal blessings. It’s been in the Melchisedek priesthood lessons for three successive years. The concept will hopefully get over that patriarchal blessings are a family affair. The natural patriarch giving the blessing. My father gave me a patriarchal blessing. I give my children a patriarchal blessing. He did it after he became a natural patriarch to his posterity through this Priesthood which the prophet said was patriarchal authority. I do it after the same thing has come to me. He gets the blessings of Abraham, through a temple ordinance. I get the blessings of Abraham through a temple ordinance. I bless my children. He blesses his children. It’s a family affair.