A good quote I thought addressed this from Jeffrey Holland:Sirocco wrote: ↑February 10th, 2018, 1:17 amI don't think many of them can get that far, video games has taken most of them off the market lolMMbelieve wrote: ↑December 24th, 2017, 3:13 amTell me about aspergers men. Because they have an 80% divorce rate when married to neurotypical women. They are also horrible marriages where the women feel as if they are living with either a narcissist or a psychopath because of the damage they cause to women. The lack of reciprocation of feelings, lack of empathy, lack of compassion and concern, inability to connect emotionally etc.Fiannan wrote: ↑December 24th, 2017, 2:56 amI was listening to a man who is a diagnosed psychopath who noted that the singles market for women in their 30s is the perfect hunting ground for psychopathic men. Women bash and demean men and expect them to conform to their contradictory expectations (be all emotional and caring, yet be a strong competitive man in getting goals). So yes, many men do not fit the expectations and are basically thrown into the "leftovers" pile. Of course a psychopath can pretend to be all those things and women past 30 are so desperate for that one-and-only they get served up on the plate (figuratively that is, not some NWO party at an exclusive estate).The reason we are not made aware of this, is that women put alot more effort into making themselves victims than do men. And they are better at shaming men, should they complain. "Be a man", "Grow a pair".
This will continue until the whole marriage thing is a big negative for men, and since they aren't as good at fighting for "equality", they'll just check out. The MGTOW movement is growing fast.
In the end, women will find fewer and fewer men available, and won't know why. Then they'll continue to berate and shame men to get them to marry and be "responsible", i.e. give women what they want.
This is why psychopaths are the apex of evolution. They will pass on more and more genes into the next generation while the empathetic guys get crushed by narcissistic wannabe women. If it wasn't threatening the strength of the nation by the collapsing birthrate it would be funny, in a dark sort of way.
These men are having babies and also the rate of autism is increasing exponentially. I read last year something that stated in 10 years time 1 of every 2 children with have autism.
This is a grand threat to the birthrate! Many autistic adults do not even have the skills to marry or desire to. Aspergers men can mimic enough to get a wife but often after the wedding fall back to their authentic selves and the marriage goes down hill and to very dark places very quickly.
It seems there is a perfect storm brewing in our society and in a decade or 2, no one will be fit to be procreating or in a position to do so.
We're not exactly successful in any sort of the way, i don't know where all the autism is coming from, but aspergers men are terribly unsuccessful...
The women less so.
I mean I couldn't mimic enough to get a relationship out of anyone letalone a wife, I'm almost 30, and... Yeah I don't see it happening.
And as per lacking things, its less a lack of things and more an inability in showing them, or showing them in strange ways.
I have felt love for a girl, for over a year and it went nowhere and it pained me more then anything has ever pained me before to have to let her go.
I had more compassion to her then I ever had most anyone (she had her own mental illnesses and I understood her and could be compassionate in ways I understood to her). Now the connecting emotionally, well that's the big thing I cannot deny.
I've never understood it, and as a result I'll spend my life on this great big earth alone.
Aspergers is a shameful thing to have, and it disgusts me every moment I have it.
Born to lose.
A nothing person.
Christ is shown perfectly and purely in Christs unfailing, ultimate and atoning love for us...It is Christ’s love for us that “beareth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.” It is as demonstrated that ‘charity never faileth’. It is that charity - his pure love for us - without which we would be nothing, hopeless, of all men and women most miserable.”
My own weaknesses disgust me too. We are all nothing without Him. But our lives, combined with Christ’s can be beautiful and perfectly flawed. Our fallen natures can lead to a humility that help us to know the source of any goodness and help us to seek after it.