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7cylon7 wrote:This is the most IRONIC thread on here of all time.


It was intended as flame bait that didn't work.


yep, and so typical....


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Only a stupid person would admit that! :D
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7cylon7 wrote:This is the most IRONIC thread on here of all time.


It was intended as flame bait that didn't work.


yep, and so typical....


I have no clue what this is about but the entire world is full of children in adult bodies and with adult abilities.

This is the direct result of hundreds of years of trash genes allowed to reproduce at a faster rate as compared to the intelligent ones.
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NARCISSISTIC MEN..DO WE CALL THEM HUMAN?




Women represent to the male narcissist the greatest potential threat for sustaining a narcissistic injury. Narcissists, for this one reason, fear the female gender, but do not evidence their fear when associating with females. Instead their behavior and words indicate a dislike and distrust of female motives and intentions.

The narcissist is incapable of coping with the myriad array of emotions that women are capable of displaying. Dealing with these feminine emotions is a potential and real threat to the narcissist's image as a man or a lover. Female sentiments mentally tax the narcissist. Because he exhausts so much energy thinking about himself, he doesn't have the vigor to handle female emotions. Since he knows that he is incapable of sustaining a meaningful relationship with a woman he sees these emotions as an even greater threat for narcissistic injury.

A narcissist is skilled at the art of verbal abuse and the narcissist is proficient at verbally abusing women. Narcissists like to frustrate women. Their behavior toward a woman keeps her on the edge of insanity because she doesn't know what is coming next. The narcissist uses what he deems the blunt or brutal truth to eat away at any attributes that a woman might have. The woman is left with no self-esteem when the narcissist is through with her. This is the way he wants her. If her self esteem is not in tact he can gain control over her and retain her as narcissistic supply.

Narcissists proficiently spin a web of suspense around themselves. They feed on the idea that they are mysterious to others. This is an additional way they have of aggravating women.

And, please ladies don't invade the narcissist's personal space. Remember the narcissist can occupy your personal space anytime he wants because he considers himself "special". If you cross the threshold of his personal space get ready to encounter a narcissistic rage.

The narcissist may sign a marriage certificate, but in his mind he is never "really married" to you. He has simply captured you as a source of narcissistic supply. You are either financially advantageous to him, increase his status, or with your beauty you are an enhancement on his arm.


Narcissists do not enjoy sex or want to have sex with those that they consider to be significant others (wives, girlfriends). But, they will jump at the chance to have sex with a woman they consider to be a vamp. Sex with significant others requires intimacy and a narcissist is incapable of achieving intimacy with others. Narcissists are prone toward having a Madonna/Vamp Complex.

He uses denial as a defense mechanism and does not see his extracurricular affairs as being adultery. He reasons that there are no "emotions involved" in these affairs so he is not cheating. He fails to admit to himself and others, however, that for him there are no emotions involved in his marriage either. He simply is not capable of feeling any emotions even in his marriage.

The narcissistically disordered cannot fall for another and make a relationship with a woman into a true partnership of a sexual or platonic nature. Their disorder prohibits their abilities to manage either kind of situation. Women sooner or later will desire intimacy. This will over shadow all other parts of the relationship and for the narcissist the relationship will become unworkable. A narcissist can never feel another's love and is completely incapable of returning anything that looks like love to his female partner.

And, if you think that you have "fixed" him, think again. If you want to secure two-three months of a seemingly normal marriage or relationship, either threaten to leave him or leave him. He will pursue you relentlessly. When you're back in his hold securely, he will immediately revert back to his old self.

Women may over look the grandiosity and attention seeking of the narcissist, but the lack of the narcissist's ability to exchange feelings of a loving kind is deadly to all intimate relationships.



All men should read Cosmopolitan. It's a window into the mind of women. I've been fortunate to be in a room with several college age girls reading Cosmo and discussing the articles, it's educational.
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Yeah, well perhaps adult women don't read Cosmopolitan. I find the Book of Mormon to be good reading. :D

God promised men that good and obedient wives would be found in all corners of the world.


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Narcissism is not just attention-seeking or wanting to be liked. Clearly everyone who signs up for a social media site wants to interact with others. It is more severe and characterized by an inability to form healthy, long-term relationships.
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Which one is/was a psychopath you think? If it takes you more than 3 seconds to make the determination maybe you have the right answer:

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Juliette wrote:Yeah, well perhaps adult women don't read Cosmopolitan. I find the Book of Mormon to be good reading. :D

God promised men that good and obedient wives would be found in all corners of the world.


Then He laughed and made the earth round.



Women's magazines are generally trash. They often encourage women to behave in an unnatural fashion. (being sexually promiscuous,etc) and this is a behavior that is disasterous for women. They will do what these magazines tell them to do, though, because they believe that is the hip and "liberated" way to act and also the way that will get them a man.
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Fiannan wrote:Which one is/was a psychopath you think? If it takes you more than 3 seconds to make the determination maybe you have the right answer:

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Maybe the woman in the pic and most women are cheaters. And have said it because it’s true.

I don’t mean this to be a provocateur or to prance around in the realm of the hypothetical like some kind of dandy. I mean, flat out, that every woman in the world is a cheater, has cheated, and is probably cheating at this very moment.

Getting a woman to cheat on her husband or significant other is not like getting a woman to go to the gym — by heaping bullloads of gifts and attention on her like a spoilt child and then ultimately getting no burn for your earn. Getting a woman to cheat is like getting a duck to eat bread crumbs or a rat to eat rubbish. All you have to do is toss it in front of their face.

It’s not a hard conclusion to draw, so let’s just look at the facts. Getting attention from men is a woman’s lifeblood. That’s why women worship men in the form of menial tasks that they’re not very good at — because men control our attention like the gods of old controlled the sun and the crypt. We giveth and we can taketh away.

Good attention, bad attention, the worst kind of attention; it doesn’t matter. To a woman, being in a Girls Gone Wild video is just as laudable as serving in a highly respected public office. They stack up eyeballs like empty pie plates at a NOW convention.

So let’s compare: a woman’s lust for attention versus a man’s desire to consume or waste things — something very manly indeed. Take throwing a sandwich in the street for example. Do you know what’s better than throwing a sandwich in the street? That’s right, throwing two sandwiches in the street. Now what if that sandwich cost twice as much as the first? What if you had to wait in line again to get it? I would probably still do it and I’m betting that most men would. But what if dealing with two sandwiches cost you your dignity, your job, and your soul?

Women, of course, have none of those things — or at least don’t have 2 out of 3. That’s why when we change ’sandwiches’ to ‘men’ and ‘throwing them in the street’ to ‘getting any kind of attention from them’, we can easily draw the conclusion that women would do anything, and would stop at the destruction of nothing, for more of it.

Not even guilt will stop women from being the cheating harlots that they are. That’s because women think that cheating requires some kind of expressed willingness or premeditation on their part to actually count. I bull you not, that is exactly what they say. To a woman true cheating requires a planning and malice on par with a bank robbery. If the only evidence of infidelity you can produce is that she got drunk and put herself in a compromising position, you’re up argument creek without a chance in hell.

Can you believe that? It means if a woman can somehow convince a co-worker to force himself on her, or to “rape” her, that doesn’t count as cheating. It’s just another horrible thing that’s happened to poor defenseless her in this dog eat dog, man-world of rape happy abusers. That’s obviously a bunch of bull, but stand back because it gets worse.

Women also don’t count miring themselves in twisted, Dynasty-styled emotional affairs as cheating. For instance, a woman may hang around with as many as five or six of her ex-boyfriends without batting an eye. She may accept niceties from male co-workers or university staff members without ever questioning the motive of a free backrub. That’s a perfectly reasonable thing to be handing out, isn’t it? A free backrub?

Like any virus, women are not content with ruining their own lives. Ultimately, they seek out the lives of decent, honest men and tempt and corrupt them until they appear to be cheaters as well when nothing could be further from the truth. Cheating is like getting pregnant. It’s 100% a woman’s fault 100% of the time.
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"Not even guilt will stop women from being the cheating harlots that they are."

LOL! :)) I used to emphasize to the young women about the attention of men. If you dress provactively, you will get attention alright, but if you think they are looking at you with love in their eyes, you are terribly wrong.
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Maybe the woman in the pic and most women are cheaters. And have said it because it’s true.

I don’t mean this to be a provocateur or to prance around in the realm of the hypothetical like some kind of dandy. I mean, flat out, that every woman in the world is a cheater, has cheated, and is probably cheating at this very moment.

Getting a woman to cheat on her husband or significant other is not like getting a woman to go to the gym — by heaping bullloads of gifts and attention on her like a spoilt child and then ultimately getting no burn for your earn. Getting a woman to cheat is like getting a duck to eat bread crumbs or a rat to eat rubbish. All you have to do is toss it in front of their face.

It’s not a hard conclusion to draw, so let’s just look at the facts. Getting attention from men is a woman’s lifeblood. That’s why women worship men in the form of menial tasks that they’re not very good at — because men control our attention like the gods of old controlled the sun and the crypt. We giveth and we can taketh away.

Good attention, bad attention, the worst kind of attention; it doesn’t matter. To a woman, being in a Girls Gone Wild video is just as laudable as serving in a highly respected public office. They stack up eyeballs like empty pie plates at a NOW convention.

So let’s compare: a woman’s lust for attention versus a man’s desire to consume or waste things — something very manly indeed. Take throwing a sandwich in the street for example. Do you know what’s better than throwing a sandwich in the street? That’s right, throwing two sandwiches in the street. Now what if that sandwich cost twice as much as the first? What if you had to wait in line again to get it? I would probably still do it and I’m betting that most men would. But what if dealing with two sandwiches cost you your dignity, your job, and your soul?

Women, of course, have none of those things — or at least don’t have 2 out of 3. That’s why when we change ’sandwiches’ to ‘men’ and ‘throwing them in the street’ to ‘getting any kind of attention from them’, we can easily draw the conclusion that women would do anything, and would stop at the destruction of nothing, for more of it.

Not even guilt will stop women from being the cheating harlots that they are. That’s because women think that cheating requires some kind of expressed willingness or premeditation on their part to actually count. I bull you not, that is exactly what they say. To a woman true cheating requires a planning and malice on par with a bank robbery. If the only evidence of infidelity you can produce is that she got drunk and put herself in a compromising position, you’re up argument creek without a chance in hell.

Can you believe that? It means if a woman can somehow convince a co-worker to force himself on her, or to “rape” her, that doesn’t count as cheating. It’s just another horrible thing that’s happened to poor defenseless her in this dog eat dog, man-world of rape happy abusers. That’s obviously a bunch of bull, but stand back because it gets worse.

Women also don’t count miring themselves in twisted, Dynasty-styled emotional affairs as cheating. For instance, a woman may hang around with as many as five or six of her ex-boyfriends without batting an eye. She may accept niceties from male co-workers or university staff members without ever questioning the motive of a free backrub. That’s a perfectly reasonable thing to be handing out, isn’t it? A free backrub?

Like any virus, women are not content with ruining their own lives. Ultimately, they seek out the lives of decent, honest men and tempt and corrupt them until they appear to be cheaters as well when nothing could be further from the truth. Cheating is like getting pregnant. It’s 100% a woman’s fault 100% of the time.


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Maybe the woman in the pic and most women are cheaters. And have said it because it’s true.

I don’t mean this to be a provocateur or to prance around in the realm of the hypothetical like some kind of dandy. I mean, flat out, that every woman in the world is a cheater, has cheated, and is probably cheating at this very moment.

Getting a woman to cheat on her husband or significant other is not like getting a woman to go to the gym — by heaping bullloads of gifts and attention on her like a spoilt child and then ultimately getting no burn for your earn. Getting a woman to cheat is like getting a duck to eat bread crumbs or a rat to eat rubbish. All you have to do is toss it in front of their face.

It’s not a hard conclusion to draw, so let’s just look at the facts. Getting attention from men is a woman’s lifeblood. That’s why women worship men in the form of menial tasks that they’re not very good at — because men control our attention like the gods of old controlled the sun and the crypt. We giveth and we can taketh away.

Good attention, bad attention, the worst kind of attention; it doesn’t matter. To a woman, being in a Girls Gone Wild video is just as laudable as serving in a highly respected public office. They stack up eyeballs like empty pie plates at a NOW convention.

So let’s compare: a woman’s lust for attention versus a man’s desire to consume or waste things — something very manly indeed. Take throwing a sandwich in the street for example. Do you know what’s better than throwing a sandwich in the street? That’s right, throwing two sandwiches in the street. Now what if that sandwich cost twice as much as the first? What if you had to wait in line again to get it? I would probably still do it and I’m betting that most men would. But what if dealing with two sandwiches cost you your dignity, your job, and your soul?

Women, of course, have none of those things — or at least don’t have 2 out of 3. That’s why when we change ’sandwiches’ to ‘men’ and ‘throwing them in the street’ to ‘getting any kind of attention from them’, we can easily draw the conclusion that women would do anything, and would stop at the destruction of nothing, for more of it.

Not even guilt will stop women from being the cheating harlots that they are. That’s because women think that cheating requires some kind of expressed willingness or premeditation on their part to actually count. I bull you not, that is exactly what they say. To a woman true cheating requires a planning and malice on par with a bank robbery. If the only evidence of infidelity you can produce is that she got drunk and put herself in a compromising position, you’re up argument creek without a chance in hell.

Can you believe that? It means if a woman can somehow convince a co-worker to force himself on her, or to “rape” her, that doesn’t count as cheating. It’s just another horrible thing that’s happened to poor defenseless her in this dog eat dog, man-world of rape happy abusers. That’s obviously a bunch of bull, but stand back because it gets worse.

Women also don’t count miring themselves in twisted, Dynasty-styled emotional affairs as cheating. For instance, a woman may hang around with as many as five or six of her ex-boyfriends without batting an eye. She may accept niceties from male co-workers or university staff members without ever questioning the motive of a free backrub. That’s a perfectly reasonable thing to be handing out, isn’t it? A free backrub?

Like any virus, women are not content with ruining their own lives. Ultimately, they seek out the lives of decent, honest men and tempt and corrupt them until they appear to be cheaters as well when nothing could be further from the truth. Cheating is like getting pregnant. It’s 100% a woman’s fault 100% of the time.


Should we be looking for missing hookers buried in your garden?

No kidding. Ras you need help, that last post especially is completely insane.
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Aparently, Rass has some grudges, but still has some good points.
If someone (male or female) is blessed with an attractive appearance & has low self-esteem, they may use their appearance to try to use others to increase their sense of value & importance.

I've heard that that narcisism is being redefined, since so many in society display narcisitic characteristics.

Oh - & thanks for the laughs - this thread has been entertaining! :D
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Maybe the woman in the pic and most women are cheaters. And have said it because it’s true.

I don’t mean this to be a provocateur or to prance around in the realm of the hypothetical like some kind of dandy. I mean, flat out, that every woman in the world is a cheater, has cheated, and is probably cheating at this very moment.

Getting a woman to cheat on her husband or significant other is not like getting a woman to go to the gym — by heaping bullloads of gifts and attention on her like a spoilt child and then ultimately getting no burn for your earn. Getting a woman to cheat is like getting a duck to eat bread crumbs or a rat to eat rubbish. All you have to do is toss it in front of their face.

It’s not a hard conclusion to draw, so let’s just look at the facts. Getting attention from men is a woman’s lifeblood. That’s why women worship men in the form of menial tasks that they’re not very good at — because men control our attention like the gods of old controlled the sun and the crypt. We giveth and we can taketh away.

Good attention, bad attention, the worst kind of attention; it doesn’t matter. To a woman, being in a Girls Gone Wild video is just as laudable as serving in a highly respected public office. They stack up eyeballs like empty pie plates at a NOW convention.

So let’s compare: a woman’s lust for attention versus a man’s desire to consume or waste things — something very manly indeed. Take throwing a sandwich in the street for example. Do you know what’s better than throwing a sandwich in the street? That’s right, throwing two sandwiches in the street. Now what if that sandwich cost twice as much as the first? What if you had to wait in line again to get it? I would probably still do it and I’m betting that most men would. But what if dealing with two sandwiches cost you your dignity, your job, and your soul?

Women, of course, have none of those things — or at least don’t have 2 out of 3. That’s why when we change ’sandwiches’ to ‘men’ and ‘throwing them in the street’ to ‘getting any kind of attention from them’, we can easily draw the conclusion that women would do anything, and would stop at the destruction of nothing, for more of it.

Not even guilt will stop women from being the cheating harlots that they are. That’s because women think that cheating requires some kind of expressed willingness or premeditation on their part to actually count. I bull you not, that is exactly what they say. To a woman true cheating requires a planning and malice on par with a bank robbery. If the only evidence of infidelity you can produce is that she got drunk and put herself in a compromising position, you’re up argument creek without a chance in hell.

Can you believe that? It means if a woman can somehow convince a co-worker to force himself on her, or to “rape” her, that doesn’t count as cheating. It’s just another horrible thing that’s happened to poor defenseless her in this dog eat dog, man-world of rape happy abusers. That’s obviously a bunch of bull, but stand back because it gets worse.

Women also don’t count miring themselves in twisted, Dynasty-styled emotional affairs as cheating. For instance, a woman may hang around with as many as five or six of her ex-boyfriends without batting an eye. She may accept niceties from male co-workers or university staff members without ever questioning the motive of a free backrub. That’s a perfectly reasonable thing to be handing out, isn’t it? A free backrub?

Like any virus, women are not content with ruining their own lives. Ultimately, they seek out the lives of decent, honest men and tempt and corrupt them until they appear to be cheaters as well when nothing could be further from the truth. Cheating is like getting pregnant. It’s 100% a woman’s fault 100% of the time.


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Juliette wrote:"Not even guilt will stop women from being the cheating harlots that they are."

LOL! :)) I used to emphasize to the young women about the attention of men. If you dress provactively, you will get attention alright, but if you think they are looking at you with love in their eyes, you are terribly wrong.
I have always enjoyed men as friends, usually over women. One of my male cousins is my very best friend!
I don't know what kind of women you hang out with, but what you write is not true, especially for we women in the church who have been
taught better.
The truth of the matter is, you are describing men! :))


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In fact, feminism owes its modern influence in part to Christianity itself. Aristotle's famous remark that women were 'inferior men' was typical of the ancient pagan attitude towards women, who were often treated as little more than chattel. On the other hand, Christianity embraced monogamous values and spiritual equality between genders, which attracted quite a number of female converts during the apostolic era.


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Juliette wrote:"Not even guilt will stop women from being the cheating harlots that they are."

LOL! :)) I used to emphasize to the young women about the attention of men. If you dress provactively, you will get attention alright, but if you think they are looking at you with love in their eyes, you are terribly wrong.
I have always enjoyed men as friends, usually over women. One of my male cousins is my very best friend!
I don't know what kind of women you hang out with, but what you write is not true, especially for we women in the church who have been
taught better.
The truth of the matter is, you are describing men! :))


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In fact, feminism owes its modern influence in part to Christianity itself. Aristotle's famous remark that women were 'inferior men' was typical of the ancient pagan attitude towards women, who were often treated as little more than chattel. On the other hand, Christianity embraced monogamous values and spiritual equality between genders, which attracted quite a number of female converts during the apostolic era.


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I have negative opinions about most people in general, i.e., both men and women. But it may be that we tend to notice the faults in women more because we're attracted to them in spite of their faults.
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Rass922 wrote:I have negative opinions about most people in general, i.e., both men and women. But it may be that we tend to notice the faults in women more because we're attracted to them in spite of their faults.


Spoken like a hurt idealist. I suppose you are not a psychopath since those men learn early on how to use the faults of women to their advantage. In martial arts one of the first lessons is to let the force your opponent exerts to hurt you to assist you in gaining control. That's a lesson people can apply to much in life.
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Fiannan wrote:In martial arts one of the first lessons is to let the force your opponent exerts to hurt you to assist you in gaining control. That's a lesson people can apply to much in life.


Could you expand on that idea a little more and explain further how it can be applied to relationships in life. Thanks.
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Fiannan wrote:In martial arts one of the first lessons is to let the force your opponent exerts to hurt you to assist you in gaining control. That's a lesson people can apply to much in life.


Could you expand on that idea a little more and explain further how it can be applied to relationships in life. Thanks.


Simple, many narcissists and all psychopaths are experts at reading human emotion and with it what the otehr person wants. Take Obama for example, he can go into an area where the economy is devastated by some of his environmental policies and, with a straight face, tell the people he is fighting for them. You see, he knows what they want to hear and so he makes the message fit the occasion. He has no scruples whatsoever then going to a high-class Hollywood fundraiser and bragging about what he is doing to seal off more and more public land to any use by industry.

This is much the same as when a guy gets involved with some animal rights group on campus because 90% of the members are bubble-headed bleach blondes who think the world is like a Disney movie. He may care nothing about saving whatever animal is being discussed at the time but he can try to shed a tear and share about how much he loves little furry creatures. His goal? Well, you know what it is.

So often one must calculate what the other person in any social setting wants and then make your message fit them. It's quite easy -- and some people wind up in political power due to their skills in this area.
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So thats why that guy was on Campus! He had me at " MEOW".


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I never could resist a man with furry animals, unless its a cat, I hate cats!

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Juliette wrote:I never could resist a man with furry animals, unless its a cat, I hate cats!

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Females are like cats, inherited and cultivated or allowed to atrophy, ability to perceive patterns, integrating them into cohesive harmonious mental models abstractions - the quality of the models determined by the amount of details integrated within them - and their projection, using the imagination, into the unknown, Temporality Time, Possibility Space, so as to preempt future phenomena, prepare for them and/or more efficiently focus energies (Will) upon them.

As such the breadth and depth of the event horizon of a mind, its timelessness or its thinking beyond the immediate cultural and/or social and environmental conditions, determines its intelligence.

In this regard females have proven to be wanting in that they display an ability to integrate within the estalbished and to successfully play the role of supportive element - and this for specific genetic and reproductive reasons - but display a proportional inadequacy to think beyond the immediate or outside the social and cultural box or estalbished beliefs.

Their event horizon is wide but not long. Therefore, they cannot produce anything that revolutionizes human understanding but only offer support for what is already estalbished as a "truth", working within the frameworks she is born within.

She is reluctant to challenge authority or what dominates choosing only to contribute to its completion.

The male psyche, on the other hand, is one of challenge.
This is what produces the scientific and philosophical mind.
Not to bow to reality, evoking some omnipotent authority, but to confront it, know it and overcome it....this is a product of his reproductive role.

His event horizon is less wide but far longer....deeper...more timeless, and so, often, less immediately practical.

The average woman - allowing for variations on the rule and/or exceptions to it - perceives more spatially...more possibilities within her shorter event horizon.
She does not perceive as much depth but more breadth.
Her thinking is superficial but multifarious.

The average man - allowing for variations on the rule and/or exceptions to it - perceives a longer temporal horizon and less possibilities within a less wide view.
He is more focused and more interested in timeless ideas, rather than the immediate ones, because he competes to outmaneuver his competitors by foreseeing what they fail to see at all.......
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MEN ARE FUNNY, starring PF-Mustang! :))

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LOK AT A POLITICIAN :ymdevil: :D
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Rass, I pity any woman in your life.
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Nan wrote:Rass, I pity any woman in your life.



Rass minus the "R"! ;)
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