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Healing A Broken Heart

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How to Heal A Broken Heart

A broken heart is not just about losing a romantic love. All types of loss can cause a person to feel the dark despair of anguish, desperation or a sadness that overwhelms your whole being. All loss, whether it is a job, a friend, a home or whatever is lost can cause feelings of severe heartache.
A memorable song from the jute box era of the 60's
Only Love can break a heart
Only Love can mend it again
I heard the song when I was young, Can still hear it in my mind today, But it took 60years to feel and understand. Isnt this Life unbelievable. Like they say , that's life.
In the most traditional sense of healing a broken heart, it is a scientific fact that when two people have developed a bond with each other there can be an actual physical withdrawal that is chemically based on cells interacting with each other in a sort of cosmic overlap and quite real. In the immortal words of a 60’s pop love song, “only love can break a heart, only love can mend it again.” This is very wise advice, but what can you do to actively heal a pain that is at best invisible to the eye, but very real to the heart?
God is the true source of Love; approach him in total humility, Pray to be filled with his love
You will come to observe that love does come from God and you have only to tap into the sublime energy at any time. It is always available to you. You must learn to access the love you need for yourself, without depending on another person to supply it for you. Once you have felt true love from God , then you can share that love. You will realize His Love is pure, unlimited and unconditional. Then the love you share can also be pure unconditional and unlimited. when you meet a compatible partner, you can enjoy the true blessings of love with no strings attached, and share the wonderful loving feelings without fear of loss or rejection knowing it is God who is the true foundation and supplier of true love. There is no need to be stingy. There is an abundance. Love is not love till it is given to others.
The Prophet Joseph Smith said, “A man filled with the love of God, is not content with blessing his family alone, but ranges through the whole world, anxious to bless the whole human race”
Spirituality is the consciousness of communion with the divine. To feel , and to share Gods love, is truly the most sublime experiences in life. My prayer is to love , forever and always. In the end , the only thing that matters, is if I have loved enough. Pray to The Father with all energy of heart, to be filled with his Love, the pure Healing, Love of Christ. He understands, He once had a broken heart also.

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dennis wrote:How to Heal A Broken Heart

A broken heart is not just about losing a romantic love. All types of loss can cause a person to feel the dark despair of anguish, desperation or a sadness that overwhelms your whole being. All loss, whether it is a job, a friend, a home or whatever is lost can cause feelings of severe heartache.
A memorable song from the jute box era of the 60's
Only Love can break a heart
Only Love can mend it again
I heard the song when I was young, Can still hear it in my mind today, But it took 60years to feel and understand. Isnt this Life unbelievable. Like they say , that's life.
In the most traditional sense of healing a broken heart, it is a scientific fact that when two people have developed a bond with each other there can be an actual physical withdrawal that is chemically based on cells interacting with each other in a sort of cosmic overlap and quite real. In the immortal words of a 60’s pop love song, “only love can break a heart, only love can mend it again.” This is very wise advice, but what can you do to actively heal a pain that is at best invisible to the eye, but very real to the heart?
God is the true source of Love; approach him in total humility, Pray to be filled with his love
You will come to observe that love does come from God and you have only to tap into the sublime energy at any time. It is always available to you. You must learn to access the love you need for yourself, without depending on another person to supply it for you. Once you have felt true love from God , then you can share that love. You will realize His Love is pure, unlimited and unconditional. Then the love you share can also be pure unconditional and unlimited. when you meet a compatible partner, you can enjoy the true blessings of love with no strings attached, and share the wonderful loving feelings without fear of loss or rejection knowing it is God who is the true foundation and supplier of true love. There is no need to be stingy. There is an abundance. Love is not love till it is given to others.
The Prophet Joseph Smith said, “A man filled with the love of God, is not content with blessing his family alone, but ranges through the whole world, anxious to bless the whole human race”
Spirituality is the consciousness of communion with the divine. To feel , and to share Gods love, is truly the most sublime experiences in life. My prayer is to love , forever and always. In the end , the only thing that matters, is if I have loved enough. Pray to The Father with all energy of heart, to be filled with his Love, the pure Healing, Love of Christ. He understands, He once had a broken heart also.
What a beautiful post!
It seems that life is intended to be difficult at times because we and others make mistakes and the consequences can be heart-breaking. As much as we want to be or appear "perfect," we have weaknesses, so we can be humble and God can make weak things strong (psychological term: positive disintegration). Maybe the only way to spiritually grow is to have one's heart broken again and again, expanding to a greater capacity to love.

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dennis wrote:How to Heal A Broken Heart

A broken heart is not just about losing a romantic love. All types of loss can cause a person to feel the dark despair of anguish, desperation or a sadness that overwhelms your whole being. All loss, whether it is a job, a friend, a home or whatever is lost can cause feelings of severe heartache.
A memorable song from the jute box era of the 60's
Only Love can break a heart
Only Love can mend it again
I heard the song when I was young, Can still hear it in my mind today, But it took 60years to feel and understand. Isnt this Life unbelievable. Like they say , that's life.
In the most traditional sense of healing a broken heart, it is a scientific fact that when two people have developed a bond with each other there can be an actual physical withdrawal that is chemically based on cells interacting with each other in a sort of cosmic overlap and quite real. In the immortal words of a 60’s pop love song, “only love can break a heart, only love can mend it again.” This is very wise advice, but what can you do to actively heal a pain that is at best invisible to the eye, but very real to the heart?
God is the true source of Love; approach him in total humility, Pray to be filled with his love
You will come to observe that love does come from God and you have only to tap into the sublime energy at any time. It is always available to you. You must learn to access the love you need for yourself, without depending on another person to supply it for you. Once you have felt true love from God , then you can share that love. You will realize His Love is pure, unlimited and unconditional. Then the love you share can also be pure unconditional and unlimited. when you meet a compatible partner, you can enjoy the true blessings of love with no strings attached, and share the wonderful loving feelings without fear of loss or rejection knowing it is God who is the true foundation and supplier of true love. There is no need to be stingy. There is an abundance. Love is not love till it is given to others.
The Prophet Joseph Smith said, “A man filled with the love of God, is not content with blessing his family alone, but ranges through the whole world, anxious to bless the whole human race”
Spirituality is the consciousness of communion with the divine. To feel , and to share Gods love, is truly the most sublime experiences in life. My prayer is to love , forever and always. In the end , the only thing that matters, is if I have loved enough. Pray to The Father with all energy of heart, to be filled with his Love, the pure Healing, Love of Christ. He understands, He once had a broken heart also.
Wow, beautiful post!
You will come to observe that love does come from God and you have only to tap into the sublime energy at any time.
The example of God's love for his children is in the atonement of Jesus Christ.
He understands, He once had a broken heart also
Jesus Christ was without sin, still, His life was spent with a broken heart and a contrite spirit, as shown by His submission to the will of the Father.

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Revenge Your Ex

Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a
variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on.
Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to
vent, and then escalates from there. Now sites like "Get Revenge On Your Ex"
for a fee will help you get pay back or revenge.

So what is the best way to get revenge besides slashing her tires, posting
nude photos of her and so on.

The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your
life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers,
past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and
enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge
that can end up costing you much more. Plus, when you seek revenge, you send
them a massage that you have not gotten over the relationship. It's much
better to show you are indifferent and don't care.

According to Kenneth Agee of A Foreign Affair, a service that specializes in
helping men find young beautiful foreign women, "The best revenge is to date
or marry a women 10 years younger than your ex. This will piss her off to no
end. No woman ever wants to be replaced with a younger, more attractive
woman. Just like a man never likes to get replaced by a guy who is wealthier
or more successful.

I will never forget one of my first clients we took to Saint Petersburg,
Russia." says Agee, "The client told me that two days on our tour was better
than two years of therapy. Having hundreds of attractive women fighting over
you gets your ex out of your mind pretty quick.

I personally went through break up when my ex ran off with another man. But
a short time later, I met a new lady who was ten times better. I ran into
that man who stole my ex and I gave him a big thanks. In fact, I could not
thank him enough. He was stuck with an older nagging women, while I was now
with a young, beautiful, caring women. Plus, my ex had gained about 100
pounds. I don't look at that fellow as any kind of enemy but as the person
who saved me from my ex and years of suffering." This is the best a revenge
when you win without lowering yourself.

Other sites like "Get Over Her Now" give practical advice and tips for
getting over a past relationship.

Top Tips from Get Over Her Now:

Start making platonic relationships with as many women as possible, old,
young, skinny, fat, cute or ugly. This greatly helps you get back in the
game of socializing with the opposite sex. And it opens up lots
opportunities to meet their cute attractive friends in a more relaxed
environment. This also helps you build your game and confidence.

Improve yourself, start working out, get up early every day and exercise.

Buy new clothes. Dressing better makes you feel better and improves your
confidence.

Focus on work and getting a promotion or raise. Don't let a break up effect
your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off
with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence
and help attract better quality women.

Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel
depressed, don't sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do
something that will make you feel like you've accomplished something. Take a
class, go hiking, fix something you've been putting off.

Don't start drinking. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your
life. Don't drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some
one. After all, drinking is for celebrating. So if you are not celebrating
something, don't drink. A quality women is not going to be attracted to
someone who drinks a lot or has a drinking problem.

Don't sleep in; sleeping late increases depression. Get up as early as you
can and go for a walk, take a hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting
up early and exercising can eliminate depression. You will have no game be
depressed.

Don't binge eat. If you start gaining weight, you will feel less self-worth
and lose your confidence. Confidence is a quality that women are extremely
attracted to.

Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she
realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet
someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are
seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place!

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