She had a CTR ring on her wedding-ring finger
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She had a CTR ring on her wedding-ring finger
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I was at institute the other night and was sitting next to a cute sister who, I'm assuming is single in the sense that she isn't married (the institute we were at is one held by my single's ward). Anyways, I saw on her wedding-ring finger that she was wearing a CTR ring . That was all on that finger. There wasn't an accompanying wedding/engagement ring. Originally I thought about saying hi and introducing myself, but I backed off after seeing the ring. 'Maybe she has a boyfriend or a missionary she's writing' were the thoughts that came to my mind.
I've seen this on girls before at school. Girls that I know aren't married but I can't tell if they're in a relationship or not. Is wearing a CTR ring on your wedding-ring finger a common sort of promise-ring some girls put on per chance they are waiting for a missionary or in a serious relationship but not yet fully engaged?
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I was at institute the other night and was sitting next to a cute sister who, I'm assuming is single in the sense that she isn't married (the institute we were at is one held by my single's ward). Anyways, I saw on her wedding-ring finger that she was wearing a CTR ring . That was all on that finger. There wasn't an accompanying wedding/engagement ring. Originally I thought about saying hi and introducing myself, but I backed off after seeing the ring. 'Maybe she has a boyfriend or a missionary she's writing' were the thoughts that came to my mind.
I've seen this on girls before at school. Girls that I know aren't married but I can't tell if they're in a relationship or not. Is wearing a CTR ring on your wedding-ring finger a common sort of promise-ring some girls put on per chance they are waiting for a missionary or in a serious relationship but not yet fully engaged?
Thank
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Re: She had a CTR ring on her wedding-ring finger
sen6b wrote: I've never heard of that before.
Maybe it's a Utah County thing? I've seen it on a few girls. I mean... I guess she's taken. Why else would you have a ring on your wedding-ring finger? A CTR ring just doesn't really evoke the look of an engagement/wedding ring....
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Choose The Rich guy
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Theses are given to daughters by mom's who learned a lesson...
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Re: She had a CTR ring on her wedding-ring finger
What planet are you on now? /ducksen6b wrote:Maybe it means they are looking for someone who is a member? Idk I was on a different planet back when I was dating....haha
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If you're interested in asking her out, just ask her if there's a reason she's wearing a CTR ring on her left hand. No need to try to figure out current Utah dating habits!
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Lol, you obviously don't know me very well or you would not make such a claim!sen6b wrote:Same as you.Original_Intent wrote:What planet are you on now? /ducksen6b wrote:Maybe it means they are looking for someone who is a member? Idk I was on a different planet back when I was dating....haha
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Everyone, I appreciate the advice and thoughts. If I see her again I'll talk to her
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Wow. PLEASE don't take anybodys word here saying that she is "taken". I have known lots of girls (SINGLE girls) who wear their CTR rings there, and I did for years (when single). Sometimes it looks nice there, sometimes it's the only place it fits! Sheesh guys you can't assume things like this. My advise is just ask her why assume if you'd like to ask her out.The_Young_Wolf wrote:(Sorry if this is the wrong forum for this thread)
I was at institute the other night and was sitting next to a cute sister who, I'm assuming is single in the sense that she isn't married (the institute we were at is one held by my single's ward). Anyways, I saw on her wedding-ring finger that she was wearing a CTR ring . That was all on that finger. There wasn't an accompanying wedding/engagement ring. Originally I thought about saying hi and introducing myself, but I backed off after seeing the ring. 'Maybe she has a boyfriend or a missionary she's writing' were the thoughts that came to my mind.
I've seen this on girls before at school. Girls that I know aren't married but I can't tell if they're in a relationship or not. Is wearing a CTR ring on your wedding-ring finger a common sort of promise-ring some girls put on per chance they are waiting for a missionary or in a serious relationship but not yet fully engaged?
Thank
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Haha okay I will take your advice and if I see her again I'll say something to her. Thanks for letting me know some times girls wear the CTR ring on the wedding finger but it doesn't necessarily mean they are takenBananikka wrote:Wow. PLEASE don't take anybodys word here saying that she is "taken". I have known lots of girls (SINGLE girls) who wear their CTR rings there, and I did for years (when single). Sometimes it looks nice there, sometimes it's the only place it fits! Sheesh guys you can't assume things like this. My advise is just ask her why assume if you'd like to ask her out.The_Young_Wolf wrote:(Sorry if this is the wrong forum for this thread)
I was at institute the other night and was sitting next to a cute sister who, I'm assuming is single in the sense that she isn't married (the institute we were at is one held by my single's ward). Anyways, I saw on her wedding-ring finger that she was wearing a CTR ring . That was all on that finger. There wasn't an accompanying wedding/engagement ring. Originally I thought about saying hi and introducing myself, but I backed off after seeing the ring. 'Maybe she has a boyfriend or a missionary she's writing' were the thoughts that came to my mind.
I've seen this on girls before at school. Girls that I know aren't married but I can't tell if they're in a relationship or not. Is wearing a CTR ring on your wedding-ring finger a common sort of promise-ring some girls put on per chance they are waiting for a missionary or in a serious relationship but not yet fully engaged?
Thank
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Chicken. Man up and ask her out. At this rate you will never get marriedThe_Young_Wolf wrote:Haha okay I will take your advice and if I see her again I'll say something to her. Thanks for letting me know some times girls wear the CTR ring on the wedding finger but it doesn't necessarily mean they are takenBananikka wrote:Wow. PLEASE don't take anybodys word here saying that she is "taken". I have known lots of girls (SINGLE girls) who wear their CTR rings there, and I did for years (when single). Sometimes it looks nice there, sometimes it's the only place it fits! Sheesh guys you can't assume things like this. My advise is just ask her why assume if you'd like to ask her out.The_Young_Wolf wrote:(Sorry if this is the wrong forum for this thread)
I was at institute the other night and was sitting next to a cute sister who, I'm assuming is single in the sense that she isn't married (the institute we were at is one held by my single's ward). Anyways, I saw on her wedding-ring finger that she was wearing a CTR ring . That was all on that finger. There wasn't an accompanying wedding/engagement ring. Originally I thought about saying hi and introducing myself, but I backed off after seeing the ring. 'Maybe she has a boyfriend or a missionary she's writing' were the thoughts that came to my mind.
I've seen this on girls before at school. Girls that I know aren't married but I can't tell if they're in a relationship or not. Is wearing a CTR ring on your wedding-ring finger a common sort of promise-ring some girls put on per chance they are waiting for a missionary or in a serious relationship but not yet fully engaged?
Thank
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I agree. Everyone close to me tells me I need to date more. I'll do it. I suppose every marriage had a first dateboo wrote: Chicken. Man up and ask her out. At this rate you will never get married
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I used to wear my CTR ring on my wedding finger because I figured if a guy didn't know what it represented, he wouldn't ask me out, but if he did, he would know I wasn't married.
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I meet my wife on a very blind date. I knew nothing about her nor she me except we both knew my aged aunt,My aunt gave me her phone number , i called her up ,kept her on the phone for an hour and then asked her out. Best work I ever did, She went out and bingo . 32 years and several kids later we are the most happily matted couple we know. Don't be a pansy. Be a manThe_Young_Wolf wrote:I agree. Everyone close to me tells me I need to date more. I'll do it. I suppose every marriage had a first dateboo wrote: Chicken. Man up and ask her out. At this rate you will never get married
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:)) I don't know why I hadn't thought of wearing a ctr ring on my wedding finger...
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Of all the things you want to be sure to choose the right about, it's marriage!!
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I'm originally from Texas and while a missionary, I started wearing a custom-designed silver CTR ring that I made in high school on my ring finger. Wore it until I got married and then wore it as a wedding ring. Then wore a titanium ring for several years and just recently switched to a silicon ring.
Sometimes people just do things for no particular reason. It's best to ask rather than speculate. When I got asked if I was married every now and then, I just replied "Nope, it's just a ring and it happens to fit best on that particular finger." True story.
Sometimes people just do things for no particular reason. It's best to ask rather than speculate. When I got asked if I was married every now and then, I just replied "Nope, it's just a ring and it happens to fit best on that particular finger." True story.