I've polled a few active friends and they each have had varying experiences.
I have been an active faithful church goer my entire life, fairly diligent in my prayer, praise, and study of God and his teachings. After marriage, I've had less drive towards diligence when I expected the opposite effect.
Thanks!
116 Neither is man capable to make them known, for they are only to be seen and understood by the power of the Holy Spirit, which God bestows on those who love him, and purify themselves before him;
117 To whom he grants this privilege of seeing and knowing for themselves;
118 That through the power and manifestation of the Spirit, while in the flesh, they may be able to bear his presence in the world of glory.
119 And to God and the Lamb be glory, and honor, and dominion forever and ever. Amen.