You may want to include that the men must be willing as well. Not all men want more wives. It's not a default that we should presume to be a given.Sarah wrote:Polygamy was commanded for multiple reasons, one being an Abrahamic test. And that verse in 132 most likely refers to Joseph being commanded to offer Emma, and Emma continues to be commanded to receive Joseph's wives. One test I noticed that Abraham had, was in trusting in the Lord when the Lord told him to tell the Egyptions that Sarai was his sister. After he did that Sarai was taken into the Pharoh's house, implying that she would belong to Pharoh to be one of his concubines presumably. But we see that Abraham was blessed for this sacrifice and the Pharoh's house was cursed, persuading then to release Sarai, and that symbolic ram in the thicket was presented as deliverance.
But the speed issue, it's not about speed, it's about giving every man and woman an opportunity to have eternal increase/seed within the New and Everlasting Covenant. And within a certain time-frame, more women will be bearing children at the same time within that covenant. It doesn't matter that the the birth rate isn't sped up, but that every woman have that opportunity to be given this gift. Men have been given the responsibility and opportunity to offer this gift. If they don't enter into the covenant it is on them. But women must have this gift offered to them. So let's say a woman is 25 in the early days of the Church, with no marriage prospects, except a plural marriage offer. If she is serious about loving God in bringing forth children within this covenant, she will marry and have children before her child bearing days run out. Will it be a sacrifice? Yes, but it will fulfill the requirements of the covenant and she will be crowned as queen in the Celestial Kingdom and have her posterity. What will women do if this becomes the case before the morning of the first resurrection, when there are more mortal women desiring to enter into that covenant than there are men? Will women be humble enough to share this gift with other women? What happens when we all enter into our glory? There will be no more single women waiting, and we will live the United Order and Celestial principles. The key is that men and women are not allowed to take for themselves, they must be given and then receive correctly.
If a woman has no man, then I hope that some guy takes her. Guys can be picky and if they weren't so picky then the un-advantaged ones TODAY would be offered marriage by a man who desires to fulfill the commandments and not withhold the "gift" (as you put it) to ugly or less than desirous women.
You see...until we fix the mentality TODAY then the problems will not be solved by any future allowance of plural marriage. There should be no single woman in our LDS faith as long as there is a living single male within the church.
Everything is not as simple or basic as you imply or make them out to be.
My husband is not a vessel of life at my disposal. He is a human being who has willingly chose marriage with me and made covenants to be true and faithful in his marriage to me. I cannot simply wave my hand and change things because that would make me unfaithful to my covenants in my marriage to him and would treat him disrespectfully. And allowing him to have another wife is not a higher form of love, respect, or sacrifice.
God cares about each of us and values us more than our simple ability to procreate. There is so much more to becoming like God than having children. Not everyone will have children in this life and putting our value in that ability is wrong when there are plenty of people who will never have that ability in their life. Infertility, mental incapabilities, autism, disorders, underdevelopment etc.
I don't much like the narrow view many members within this church have. Yes, we want to become Godlike but does that mean that we become sacrificing mindless robots? No! I have the free agency to speak for myself and to reason with God. I don't fear Him like many members are taught to fear Him. He knows my husband and I don't want or believe that plural marriage is ideal or required so when and if he asked us to live it we can say no, we don't want to. If then he doesn't allow me and my husband to enter His house...then so be it. Maybe that's the true test! Will we sacrifice what we want most for what is right?
I don't believe for even a second that I will be denied every blessing and joy I'f I reject plural marriage for my self.
After all, the Abrahamic test of plural marriage supposedly already happened....why does it need to happen again? Aren't we tested enough in this hellish world? The early saints had nothing compared to the moral onslaught and confusion we have today. It's nearly impossible to be faithful in mind, body and spirit to the covenants we have made. We don't need plural marriage to test this last and final generations before the savior comes.