The logic in this is absolutely scary. According to this post, Christ is no more than a servant for the Church and not the head or leader of this Church. What the heck???!!!!What does it really mean to be the head?
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Ephesians 5
Since women are so full of love and kindness right from their genes, God specifally calls the men to get aHEAD of their wives by giving themselves for their wives as Christ gave himselfe for his church.
Christ was a servent, and to be the head should not mean anything different than that.
The scripture is plain and easy to understand. Christ is the head of the church. (as in, it is led and guided by Him through His prophets who He speaks with) The Church follows Christ. (at least we are supposed to anyways)
The husband is the head of the family and the wife is supposed to "hearken/obey unto his counsel" even as her husband hearkens unto the Father's counsel. Feminists may not like this, but this is the intended way that families were to be run. The husband hears what the Father has to say, and he in turn delivers it to the family. They can then pray about it and are invited to obey. This does not mean that a loving and righteous father rules with an iron fist. Section 121 of the D and C establishes HOW a priesthood leader/father is to govern his family or charges. Notice how this pattern is the exaxt same pattern that the Lord has with His church. The Lord speaks to the prophet. The prophet shares this revelation to the membership. The membership are invited to recieve their confirmation from the spirit. They are invited to obey.
It is really disturbing that so many of us have lost sight of this simple and basic truth of priesthood and how the Lord governs His people, by means of the Priesthood.