I recently saw an article claiming that wealthy young men from places like The Hamptons, NY (who are obviously not LDS) are getting elective vasectomies in order to protect themselves and their wealth. The real reason for this is because of the beautiful women who will lie about being on the pill, use a pin to punch holes in condoms, or even steal the contents of a used condom for the purpose of artificial insemination. These women see the men and pregnancy as a payday: since the father is wealthy they will argue in court that their child needs to be raised in that lifestyle and they need enough child support to cover the cost of such a lifestyle. Of course this is done without any love for the child, only a love for wealth and status.Spaced_Out wrote: ↑May 31st, 2017, 1:02 amIt is a temple recommend question, so if you are unable to pay - you are totally stuffed.Meili wrote: ↑May 30th, 2017, 8:43 pm I feel like the child support laws are pretty much corrupt through and through. The definition of "support" of a child when it comes to law means paying money, which is utterly backwards, if you ask me. The support children need is time and attention and individual care, which you can pay other people for, but they will never provide the same loving care a parent can. Unfortunately, propaganda campaigns have led people to view those who can't or don't pay child support as terrible people and most people feel justified in judging them, and unsympathetic toward their struggles, including incarceration. I could go on for a while but would prefer not to dwell on the subject. It is terribly frustrating to me to think of the harm the system does to families.
I think the woman post divorce purposely do things to make life as costly as possible like private schools so the ex has no chance of paying and has no chance of ever getting into another relationship and no chance of a temple recommend.
So that is the risk of marriage and with more than half of marriages ending in divorce best to avoid marriage like the plague.
Best just to declare bankruptcy and go and live on welfare stop all payments, quit your job and declare yourself as suffering from PSTD - if you have no job you cant pay anything. It cost the state lots of money to keep a person in jail - they would rather avoid the expense, as the you would not be a liability with criminal intent.
We live in a sick world. Though we have plenty to be optimistic and hopeful over, we have a lot to strengthen ourselves against.