The Mind and Heart of Family
The Husband is the head of the home, only insofar as he is the "mind." The Wife is the "heart" of the home. Just as apples and oranges are different, so too, are thoughts and feelings. Of necessity there needs to be balance between the two. Decisions and direction cannot be purely "logical," nor can they be entirely "emotional" based. Revelation for the family requires the conjunction of both "witnesses" as it were. While the husband is cognitively responsible for the family before the Lord, the wife is responsible for the nurturing. (Thoughts and Feelings are of the "spirit")
The Complementary "Spiritual" Wholeness
The Woman by real Divine power has the ability to transfigure that which is "Spiritual" into that which is "Physical" by enshrining Spirit Children with physical bodies in an "internal womb" of creation. The Man by "conditional" Divine authority (Priesthood) has the ability to transfigure that which is "physical" into that which is "Spiritual" by providing "physical souls" with "spiritual ordinances" in an "external womb" of creation. (It is only "conditional" and "figurative" insofar as a man is concerned - depending upon the righteousness of those involved.) The Woman has actual, real "ability" as far as her role is concerned; whereas, the Man's is conditional and must be sanctioned by Deity.
How Can Men and Women Respect Each Other?
We shall spend our lives learning who we are. Its greatest lesson is learning that the only being over which we have any semblance of control is ourselves - and that by the grace of God. It is more about co-operation and less about control when it comes to other intelligences. We are here to help others and in the process learn who we are by doing so.
It is important to recognize that we all have weaknesses given to us to overcome; that our lives are "tailored" to maximize the greatest growth and attain the highest potential possible.
Faith is of the MIND . . . it involves a belief in that which is not seen.Ether 12:
27 And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them.
28 Behold, I will show unto the Gentiles their weakness, and I will show unto them that faith, hope and charity bringeth unto me—the fountain of all righteousness.
Hope is of the HEART . . it involves a care about that which is not seen.
Charity is of the SOUL . .it involves heart, might, mind, and strength . . . body AND spirit.
It would be worth your while to examine all of the verses in our canonized scripture which refer to "overcome."
There are four stages to marriages:
1.) Infatuation Stage - Courtship and "Stars" in your eyes. https://youtu.be/XFcfXUL-7n0
2.) Honeymoon Stage - Marriage and "Bliss" in fulfilled goals. https://youtu.be/7jEaIDqHl74
https://youtu.be/3ChE6-LQAI4
3.) Reality Stage - "This person isn't anything like I thought they were." https://youtu.be/fB9qnPg9miw
https://youtu.be/wj10EzNKA2M
https://youtu.be/s-Ir5JMP9As
https://youtu.be/cGsYrpejAYw
4.) Honeymoon Stage - If a marriage survives stage 3, and the participants work on themselves instead of the other spouse - this stage can occur, again, and last forever. https://youtu.be/6Kld8mFky2s
https://youtu.be/SBJl5BH4Ycg